Useful Psychological Tricks To Get Your Ex Back

Even though most of your friends may tell you to let go and move on, it is not easy to forget a serious relationship and move on, at least not for the moment. But before you ever think about getting your ex back, you need to answer some important questions to see whether it is what you really want.

Think of how he or she treated you in the past! Is your ex girlfriend/boyfriend absolutely worth your effort of getting her/him back? Is it worth saving the relationship? Just go back to your past and see how you got on with him/her! The final question is, “do you really need your ex back?” If you honestly answered these questions and still want your ex back, here are some of the most important psychological tricks to get your ex back.

The first thing is to change yourself a bit. You may have an idea of what led to the breakup in the first place. If you are the cause of the breakup, you need to seriously think of what led to the breakup and try to change your behavior that led to the breakup in the first place. If you remain the same and try to win your ex back, it is not worth your effort since there would certainly be a repetition of your behavior in the future too. If your partner was the cause of the breakup, just think what provoked him or her to behave that way. If you can apprehend any fault on your part, it is best that you remedy the situation before you try to win him/her back. In fact, both of you need to change if you’ll want to continue in your relationship. But it has to start somewhere. So the best way to do is to change your behavior or habits first, and let him/her follow suit.

Make sure that you beautify yourself a little before you approach your ex in getting him/her back. A new hairstyle, new clothes or anything that would refresh and create a bit of newness in you would suffice. This is an important psychological trick that you should practice in order to catch the attention of your ex. Once you are able to catch his/her attention, it would be much easier to get him/her closer to you. Your ex may expect you to call, text, and send love quotes or breakup quotes at this juncture. But you need to do the opposite even if it seems a bit difficult at this juncture. Just allow them to swallow their pride a little bit in order to see what they are really missing. You need to stay inspired during this period and offer positive vibrations hinting of a reunion as soon as possible.

Similar to doing the opposite, make sure you make him/her wait at times. If you’ll are in a group, you may want to simply nod at topics that he/she brings up or change the topic quite subtly and address someone else in your group. This should be done in a subtle way so that you don’t annoy him/her completely. You should wait a bit longer before you reply to any message he/she sends. Try to wait for 3-4 rings before answering his/her calls. This will offer your ex a bit of a challenge and everyone gets fired up when there is a challenge.

Learning reverse psychology is one of the most important tricks that will help you get your ex back sooner than you expect. Remember to never appear jealous in front of your ex. Even if he/she is with someone else at the moment, don’t fret and bad mouth the enemy. This will work against you in the long run. The key here is to show your ex that you are mature than before. This will help you gain some respect for yourself, and also your ex will start to see you in a better light. This is very important if you decide to get your ex back much sooner than you expect…

For few more psychological tricks to get your ex back you can also take a look at the short presentation below… All the best!