Signs That Your Ex Girlfriend Is Still Into You

Break ups are difficult. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, any time a relationship is broken off, it can be difficult to get back on your feet. In many cases, you may find yourself wondering if your ex girlfriend wants to get back together with you. You may begin noticing subtle signs that they’re still into you. Sometimes, this is nothing more than wishful thinking and hope. Other times, however, it can be completely true.

How can you tell the difference? Is there any easy way to know whether or not your ex girlfriend still wants to be with you? There’s no certain way to tell one way or another, but there are some things you can look for. They won’t always prove that your ex girlfriend still wants you, but the more things exist in aggregate, the more likely it will be the case.

One of the first things to look for is whether or not your ex girlfriend comes up with reasons to be around you. You should be careful, however, not to make the mistake of thinking utilitarian reasons are the same as making reasons up. If your ex girlfriend comes by your place in order to pick up her things, but otherwise stays away, then that’s probably a sign she’s really done with you. In a more gray area, if the two of you have many of the same social circles, and you happen to run into her several times, that’s not necessarily indicative of anything other than the two of you having similar social circles. After all, you were dating, so it would make sense you have many of the same hang outs and friends.

However, if she goes out of her way to be at places she knows you’ll be, that might be a sign. Or if she actively seeks out friends that were more your friends than hers, that could also be a sign. Essentially, look for situations where she could have easily avoided you by doing nothing, yet made a special effort to be where you would be. That could be a good sign that she still wants you.

Another thing to look for is whether or not she goes out of her way to talk to you. Again, do not make the mistake of thinking utilitarian discussions are the same as going out of her way. If she’s texting or calling you in order to discuss some logistical situation, then that’s not a sign of anything. She simply needs information, and you should avoid reading into that.

However, if you find that your ex girlfriend is often texting or calling you for odd reasons, that might be a sign. If she’s leaving you texts that are obviously intended to carry on a conversation, or if she’s texting you about things that she likely already knows the answer to, that could be a sign, as well. Once again, it’s a matter of how much effort she’s putting into being around you. If she doesn’t need to talk to you, yet attempts to talk to you anyway, it might be a sign she’s still into you.

Whether or not your ex girlfriend is still into you, you should be careful. After all, the relationship didn’t work out the first time. It probably won’t work out any better the second time. Still, if you’re trying to figure out the reason for your ex girlfriend’s confusing behavior, then it well may be because she still wants you. And if nothing else, you may have changed enough for the relationship to work this time.