Great Tips On How To Make A Guy Miss You

We’ve all had that one perfect guy that just lit the fire in us and was so good in every way, but we let him get away for various reasons. Then, once we have our house back in order, we want him back, but he’s gun shy at that point, he doesn’t want to get back into a relationship again because of how it ended last time.

Well, there are ways to go about getting him back or at least getting his attention again without chasing him away. Let’s take a look at some of the best methods to make a guy miss you.

There Are Some Things You Don’t Want To Do As Well

The first that comes to mind is to throw yourself at your ex and hope for the best. Shower him with 1,000 messages per day, call him at work, call him at home, send him hundreds of text messages, like all of his Facebook posts, everything you can possibly do. That’s probably going to chase him away even further, and may even get you a restraining order from the court. You need to entice him back, make him miss you so that he comes back on his own and doesn’t feel forced.

You need to have a certain amount of patience, especially if things didn’t end well between the two of you the last time. Put together a carefully laid out plan with subtle nuances rather than a full frontal attack. Guys can be a bit skittish after a big breakup and they may want to take some time off anyway. Plus, you need to decide whether you really want him back anyway. Were you really happy or did you spend all of your time trying to make him happy? Ask yourself why do you really want him back anyway? Is it because you feel hurt and rejected or is he really that good?

Ask yourself what it is you’re really searching for in your heart, with your emotions, and long-term plans. Does this boyfriend really fit with what you want to do with your life? Are you expecting him to make you happy? Or are you better off becoming happy without him instead? There is something to be said for being happy yourself and using that to attract him, since men like women that are already happy, not women they have to make happy.

If You Want To Make Your Ex Miss You Do The Things He Liked Without Him

Sit down with paper and pen and write out a list of all of his favorite things. That would be his favorite foods, sports, pastimes, events, music, and activities, especially the ones that you like too. Then do some of them without him. If he loves to go bowling, take a few of your girlfriends and go bowling, then visit his favorite restaurant as well. You might even want to send him a text just to let him know, but don’t invite him, it’s girls night out.

He’ll read the text and think to himself, “but I like to bowl” and feel left out. He might even miss you a little as well. It’s important to just continue to do all of the things he loves, but without him. After awhile he’ll start to really miss hanging out with you like the old days, and remember all of the fun things the two of you used to do. But don’t send 20 messages telling him where you’re going, just one, short little text, either before or after you’ve already gone.

If there is a large event, such as a concert by his favorite band, buy the tickets and let him know that you have them and if he really wants to go, he should call. Only give him the one opportunity though, if he waits too long or doesn’t call, take one of your girlfriends instead. There has to be a time limit that if he doesn’t make a move then he misses out. That way he’ll suddenly get the idea that you have a life without him and if he wants to be a part of it, he better get on the ball and make the call.

Getting your ex to miss you is not as hard as you might think. The longer you’re apart the more he’ll start remembering the good times and forgetting the bad. He’ll be looking for a way to get back together without admitting any fault or guilt, so the easier you can make that for him the faster you’ll get him back.