Zodiac Signs To Re-igniting The Spark In Your Relationship

Published by Michael P.

Once the honeymoon phase of my relationship had passed, I found myself in a position where my love partner just didn’t seem to display the same depth of feelings towards me. What I didn’t know was that this could simply be due to the fact that our astrological signs are not compatible.

The 12 different signs of the Zodiac attribute certain character or personality traits to each individual person. If these traits are not compatible, the love in a relationship can wane or even worse, conflict can be created.

So how does it work and how can you go about applying the Zodiac secrets to your relationship to renew the lost feelings?

Here are 7 steps to follow:

1. Stop The Blame

Ever been told that you can’t change a man? When taking into account his star sign, this epithet could never be more true. I had to stop blaming him for not loving me anymore and quit thinking about what I had done wrong to contribute to the problems in our relationship.

2. Your Star Signs

Do some research into each of your star signs and identify the character traits that are inherent to each of your personalities. An online search gave me most of the information that I needed and I was really shocked at the differences I found between our two characters. This started creating a clear picture in my mind as to why we were experiencing relationship problems.

3. Your Compatibility

Once you have identified your star signs, you need to create a compatibility chart to find the areas where your relationship is strong and where some work may be required. I had a chart created for me by an experienced astrologer and although I was now aware that our two zodiac signs were not all that compatible (he is a Leo and I am a Taurus) I was concerned about the extent of our conflicting natures.

4. The Knowledge

Now that you have identified why you may be experiencing relationship problems, it is time to make a few changes. But knowing what is wrong is not always good enough and I found that although most astrology sites could provide me with a compatibility review, they couldn’t really help me solve the problem.

I had to realize that the only person I could change was me. I had to make the effort to get to know my man all over again, taking into consideration his assigned character traits. I had to learn that as a Leo, he is prone to dramatize situations and to extravagant lifestyle habits.

I also had to get to know myself better and define my own strengths and weaknesses. For example, I had to understand that my practicality and patience are in diverse opposition to his extravagance and drama. Although this knowledge helped me on the path to understanding my man and our relationship better, I still had no practical steps that I could take to change it.

5. Your Traits

Identifying your strong character traits puts you in a unique position to use these to positively affect your interactions in your relationship. I learnt how I could use my patience to deal with the drama rather than becoming frustrated with what I deemed to be an over-reaction to each and every situation. I also found that I could use my own practicality to balance his extravagance rather than trying to curb his enthusiasm.

These are just two of the compatibility traits that I used in my specific relationship and as these began to show results in minimizing the conflict, I began to delve deeper into the secrets of the Zodiac Love Code.

6. His Needs

Did you know that most men don’t stray from a commitment for lust or love, but simply because they feel that their needs are not being fulfilled within the relationship? You need to identify what your man needs from you and then begin fulfilling these requirements to begin enjoying his love and attention again.

I must say that as a Taurus, I found this to be one of the most difficult processes to grapple with. My stubbornness and own need for appreciation made me want to reject the idea of fulfilling his needs at the outset. However, I soon began to realize that this is exactly what I did in the beginning of our relationship and this was made me attractive to him in the first place.

I had to put myself aside and walk a mile in his shoes before I could fully understand his needs and how to fulfill them. These needs must encompass the physical, mental and emotional aspects of the relationship.

Because I was dealing with a man, I decided to address his physical needs first regarding, of course, intimacy in the bedroom. He needed me to play with his passion rather than rejecting him because he wasn’t fulfilling my own romantic and sensual requirements. I cannot begin to explain how quickly this change impacted our entire relationship.

In fact, it seemed easy to address his mental, intellectual and emotional needs after this. Our relationship is now on a more steady footing than ever before and I feel a real connection with the love of my life for the first time.

7. The Pitfalls

Although our relationship seems to be on the right path, I find that it is an ongoing battle within myself to put my needs second to those of my partner. While my initial goal to make him love me again has been achieved, I find that some of my own needs such as that of feeling appreciated have been put on the back burner.

I have also found that the process is ongoing and the more I learn about my man’s characteristics and our compatibility, the more I seem to need to do to keep the relationship working. However, I know that the work I put in is worthwhile in keeping my man by my side…

For more information about Zodiac signs in love, you can also take a look at the nice video below 🙂

All the best!